As tradition goes, the bride should wear five specific things on her wedding day. Some choose to honor this list; others break tradition—but here it is:
- The first is “something old”, symbolizing the bride’s connection to her past. It’s often a family heirloom, such as a piece of jewelry—or, in the past, even the wedding dress itself.
- The second is “something new”, which can be the dress she’s wearing or, if the gown is a family piece, a new accessory.
- Third comes “something borrowed”, representing the strong bond the bride shares with the person who lends her something—usually someone very close to her.
- The fourth is “something given”—a gift from someone dear to the bride. Like the borrowed item, this present symbolizes the transition from her old life into her new one.
- Finally, there is “something blue”, a color traditionally associated with purity, sincerity, and loyalty. Brides may choose blue earrings, shoes, or even a single flower.
And there’s more, dear brides: a charming old English custom known as the “penny in your shoe.” According to tradition, the bride’s father would slip a coin into her left shoe to bring the newlyweds wealth and happiness. In Italy, however, it’s the groom who carries a silver coin in his pocket—or, alternatively, a small one-cent coin is sewn into the hem of the bride’s gown, all to wish the couple prosperity and good luck.
In the end, dear brides, it’s up to you to decide whether to honor these age-old traditions—or take a chance and write your own story!
Sarete voi, care spose, a decidere se mantenere viva la tradizione oppure sfidare la fortuna!