In recent years, bridesmaids have taken on an increasingly prominent role in weddings. They’re no longer just extras in the background, but key figures supporting the bride with well-defined roles during the event.
The tradition of adult bridesmaids has roots in the Anglo-Saxon world of the 19th century, though it may date all the way back to Ancient Rome. Today, bridesmaids are chosen from among the bride’s dearest people—friends, cousins, colleagues—always unmarried.
Perfect bridesmaids should follow a few simple rules. First of all, there shouldn’t be more than eight of them. They should never wear white, and it’s usually the bride who chooses the dress style, color, and theme. Often, she even gifts them the full outfit, including shoes and accessories. Makeup and hairstyles are typically coordinated to ensure visual harmony with the wedding style.
To make things even more elegant, the bride may choose to have small bouquets or floral details created for each bridesmaid to match her own.
During the ceremony, bridesmaids walk ahead of the bride, assist with her train and veil, and may even help with handing out wedding favors. They also carry a small emergency kit with tissues, needle and thread, stain remover, and other essentials for any unexpected mishap.
But there’s one golden rule above all: never outshine the bride. It’s her day, her moment. Your role is to support her, uplift her, and help her shine—without stealing the spotlight!